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Why is 100 Bloggers important?
This project is important for several reasons:
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A new generation needs mentoring. Every day, horny young people
find the Web and discover that their vague fantasies of leather are
realized in a million ways in a million webpages. Blogging records
the real lives of real leathermen so that those young leatherfolk
can find out what it's really like to be a leatherperson. Think
of it this way: someone, sometime, somewhere helped you. Now it's
your turn. And all it takes is for you to talk about your life.
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Our history needs to be recorded. The Archives is doing all
it can, but it doesn't have the resources to conduct massive oral
histories. Blogs are a way for us to record our lives for posterity.
It's a way (literally) to make history.
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No one should feel alone. I imagine it's happened to all of
us at some time or another: you imagine that NO ONE could be feeling
the way you feel, desiring the things you desire, experiencing the
things you experience. That sense of isolation is antithetical to
the very concept of community. In creating blogs, we leave behind
places and spaces for others to come along and see themselves and
realize they're NOT alone.
- The community is changing. Bars are dying. New York City, one
of the country's largest leather communities, currently has no leather
bar to speak of. The places where we once gather are increasingly virtual.
Blogging encourages community. In the larger world of blogging, called
the "blogosphere," this sense of community is palpitant. Blogs
link to other blogs. Posts respond to the posts in other blogs. Blogs
are one way for us to formalize the changing leather community while
keeping it a community.
Why should I blog?
But this more than just a good deed. Blogging can be useful to you:
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Blogging is therapeutic. There's something about writing out
whatever is going on in your life that helps you think through your
current state of affairs. There's something about putting your thoughts
into words that simultaneously puts them into perspective.
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Blogs can help you keep in touch with your friends. Instead
of sending out a zillion emails about what's going on in your life,
your friends can just drop in on your blog. Because blogging tools
archive all your entries, they can read up on what you've doing not
just in the past few days, but also in the past few months/years.
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Blogs can help you meet new people. Sending a potential partner
to your blog can give them a peek at the "real" you. People
who stumble across your blog can contact you, and new friendships
(and more?) can emerge.
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YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO OFFER. The biggest reason to blog is
because you have something to offer, even though you may not think
you do. You're a part of this community, and your thoughts, experiences,
insights, and feelings are not just valid but valuable. Even if you
DON'T see yourself as part of the leather "community" you
should blog, because that's just as good a reason to speak your mind,
if not more so.
Why are all my excuses useless?
I'm sure you have all kinds of reasons why you shouldn't start
a blog. Here are some possible excuses and my response to them:
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I don't have the technical knowledge to start a blog. Blogger,
the recommended tool of 100 Bloggers, is WAY user friendly. If you
can use a browser (and you can, because you're reading this) you can
start a blog. It's easy as pie.
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I can't afford a blog. Blogger is free. Not only is the service
free, but Blogger offers free webhosting for your blog through blogspot.
There is no cost involved at all.
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I don't have time to blog. If you have time to read this,
you have time to blog. In fact, in the time it takes you to go through
this entire site you could have started a blog and made your first
post. Just think about all the time you're online waiting for someone
to chat with, or think about those chats with interminable pauses
between responses. Plenty of time to fire off a good post.
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I'm not a very good writer. So? Blogging is not literature.
Blogs are conversational and observational. If you can talk to a friend,
if you can send an email, then you can start a blog.
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No one would want to read my blog. Trust me, SOMEONE will
be interested in what you have to say, because SOMEWHERE out there
in the kink world, SOMEONE is going through EXACTLY what you're going
through and when they read your blog, they'll know they're not alone.
Even then, don't blog for an audience, blog for yourself.
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But I don't have anything to say about kink. It's nice to
think about some top-heavy (Top-heavy? With all these bottoms? LOL)
community where there are great and wise leaders dispensing deep insight
and wisdom, but it's simply not true. We're all in this together,
we all learn what we can, and we should all share what we learn.
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